Each to their own?

Imagine you watch someone occupied with his favorite hobby, for example cutting the grass in his garden or running with a jet ski and you watch him look so happy doing this. But you don't understand what is the joy of cutting the grass, or what is all about running with a jet ski. Eventually, you just think "oh, each to their own". And this is true.

But when watching people engaging in femdom activities, the reaction non-pervert people have is not the same as above. The "what is all about doing this" reaction is replaced by "WTF?? is he ok with his mind?" and the "each to their own" reaction is replaced by "ignore them these are sick"

The reason of this is obvious: it is not that the femdom activities contain risks (many hobbies contain risks too) it is not that the femdom activities are just not understandable to most people (many hobbies too) it is just that the male in femdom activities acts in a self-attacking, masochistic, both emotionally and sexually way.

We will outline the feelings of these people, why they feel like this and why they need to feel like this, the reasons, the psychodynamics, etc in order to reveal the true underlying mechanisms.