Videos of femdom

It is often mentioned in femdom masochistic stories or video description "the slave must do something". The force is either derived from his sexual urges, his 'justifiable' punishment, his obligation to serve his mistress, his mistress demands etc. But never from his self. His self is totally ignored (ofcourse, because his real self wants other things! eg. to simply fuck his mistress, to simply not have sexual inhibitions, distractions, fears, etc - that's why femdom fetish and male masochism is a psychosexual malfunction). The action he must do is always self attacking and self destructive. But it is not about attacking his self actually. It is about attacking his inhibitions, his fears, his perception of his self, etc. For example, it is often required from the slave to lick something disgusting for example urine. Urine fetishists may differ from masochists. The first enjoy urine (for some reasons) and urine does not disgust them (they see it as a natural body product, maybe symbolizes intimacy, etc). The second, the masochist, is disgust by urine, but he is forced to lick it. His answer, why he puts himself into this stressful situation, is because he is supposed to prove his servitude, to express admiration, etc. The truth is that if he would do that, he wouldn't feel the need to be forced to do that by his mistress or as a punishment, etc. He actually uses his mistress to help him overcome his disgust inhibitions that prevent him from a healthy sexuality.